The Coping Pill

THE COPING PILL

       The coping pill. It's most commonly known as 'Psych Meds'. Thousands of variations of scientific chemicals meant to re balance organic chemicals in your brain.

http://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/what-causes-depression                                                                     

 

       Most people suffering from Anxiety or panic attacks take specific anti-anxiety medications. There are a tremendous amount of stressors in a persons life which may hinder the production of those chemicals in your brain, making medication necessary. Some take Mood Stabilizers for their Bipolar.

 

The downside to this, other than the numerous side effects such as suicide and weight gain, is that Bipolar means 2 sides, Down Depression and Up Depression.
 

       That very downside behind what's being prescribed to you, is based primarily on the varying degrees for both types of depression. There is no rhyme or reason to why certain meds work for some, and why they don't work for others.
It is likened to perfume. The formula itself can not be patented, since the base of each person's chemistry is different, therefore rendering numerous outcomes from each person.

 

Down; low demeanor, sleepiness, excessive crying and sadness, low tolerance to stress and triggering memories, is generally called Clinical Depression.

Up;  elated euphoria, excitedly talkative with a lot of energy, less need for sleep, and heightened desire for risk. This is Manic Depression.

http://www.webmd.com/bipolar-disorder/guide/what-is-bipolar-disorder

       A large amount of questioning, evaluating, mood tracking and observation will determine how much of each Depression you suffer from, how often they cycle, how long they last, and if you experience both at the same time. The plethora of medications that require the 'Trial and Error' process, (that we all went through, until the right combination fits) can make the sanest person want to pull their hair out, which by the way is called Trichotillomania. It also includes picking at the skin. It's a form of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, OCD. A sister to Anxiety.

http://www.newsmax.com/FastFeatures/homeless-veterans-statistics/2017/02/03/id/651049/
      
       Sadly, a large population of homeless individuals are not only in need of general well being, but their mental health goes untreated, uncared for and undeserved. Many are veterans, youth, disabled and/or suffering from a terminal illness.

http://www.air.org/center/national-center-family-homelessness


       On the other side, the amount of people on medication for mental health is flippantly on the rise.  Tests to ensure that other situations or conditions are responsible are not given. In most cases, medication is prescribed, although many times it's the coping mechanisms that are not working for that individual. Non-medical options should be taught in conjunction to prescribed pills, while continuing to access the patients environmental stressors.
Many medications are blatantly over prescribed.

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db76.htm

This is not for anyone to decide on their own right now to suddenly stop taking your meds. Just talk to your doctor about the absolute necessity of each one, and if there is anything else that can help you.
 

Do NOT jump off your meds!

One of the top non psychiatric meds prescribed is for high cholesterol. That, combined with so many prescribed for Anxiety, means that there are a lot of 'Nervous Greasy People' running around. That's my new band name. :)
 

 

        Before you go to psychiatric medication for the first time, or are reevaluating them now, think about what is making you feel this way. If you are suffering from an addiction, and are using to ease the pain of depression, YOU ARE NOT GOING FORWARD.  The depression pills may absolutely help you out of a dark place so that you have the energy and will power to quit the addiction, but don't use it as a crutch to ensure that problems in your life will never arise again, requiring you to cope with them.
Analyze your environment before taking any Chemical Cocktail that alters the chemistry in your brain. 

If there is no chemical imbalance then you will do more damage than good. 

There are many causes of environmental depression:
http://www.stresstips.com/the-role-of-environmental-stress-in-your-mood/

• marriage 

• work

• children/parent 

• home environment

• neighborhood

• home repairs

• health

• accidents/hospital stays

• safety concerns

• vehicle repairs

• money

• addictions 

• friends/family

• school

Including many endless possibilities such as:
overuse of electronics
the ending of a TV series
returning from vacation

        The list goes on, but these are the main stressors in a persons life. Dealing with, or rather COPING with any of them is most certainly anxiety inducing. The proper medication would be something that helps you COPE, not repair non defunct misfirings in your brain.
Just one, let alone many of these stressors can depress you so directly, that you do not enjoy the every day little things that give you most joy.
You're not happy at all any more, and unfortunately you may not be able to decipher whether it's coming from your diagnosed depression, or from your medications not working. Both require time and patience.

 

COPING SKILLS
http://www.haveigotaproblem.com/download/191/How-To-Improve-Coping-Skills

 

Something is making you unhappy. Work on identifying what that something is, and diligently try to change it, or learn how to cope with it. There is NO magic pill. 

 

If you are miserable because your marriage is miserable, a pill won't fix it. It can make you forget it, but that won't fix it.

 

If your job is stressful, and your boss is a jerk, there is no pill that will undo that.

         However, this doesn't always mean that you need a pill to alter your brain, when your brain had nothing to do with the cause of the depression I.e. The job, the house repairs, the bad relationship with your spouse....

 

You must learn to cope with things when there is not an imbalance causing the sadness and anxiety. Taking a pill won't make it go away, you must tackle it head on.

 

        Your job will not get better. Your spouse will not get sweeter. And your not going to suddenly drop pounds, look like a model and be the latest hot thing.

No magic pill for that either. It takes work. 

 

       There are many that are in need of them due to those imbalances that cause many of the same symptoms of depression or mania. Same goes for anxiety, PTSD, OCD, and several others who suffer from mental illness. Please, take these as needed and practice on your coping skills. 

 

As far as environmental depression, a pill will only make it worse on top of side effects. 

http://www.webmd.com/depression/guide/cognitive-behavioral-therapy-for-depression#1
 

Learn to cope. Learn coping skills. Practice coping skills. Try mindful techniques designed for you to process it. Work on things. Make goals. Move. Change jobs. Suffer the interim. Learn. To. Cope. 

Cut the toxic negativity out of your life and find the coping skills that work for you

FUKITOL

Sherri Papini - The Super Mom Saga Part 4

La Desaparición De Sherri Papini

Parte Cuatro

               Unless there is a major breakthrough, confession, charges or someone releases more balloons (and hopefully without a boy in it), the case has come to a standstill as far as many are concerned. I fear the truth of it all will fade out, and become as stale as last holidays Panini bread.  Part 1, and the only one I planned on writing should have been it but this, could go on forever.

‘Captain Barratry’ Cameron Gamble on the other hand can’t get famous fast enough.



               The players in this story are something else. Almost everyone has numerous ties to specific religious, media, businesses, political or LE connections and/or scandals and all across the Internet these people are on many sites, for many reasons. Hardly anyone is a ‘nobody’, except maybe her ex-husband David Dreyfus, who quietly and quickly exited stage right just as the show was about to begin. No one seems to be a Joe Schmoe that doesn’t have large debt, never filled for bankruptcy , didn't have their name on a dozen websites already, or is just your average lower - middle class human being.

The only sub par human beings in this story are the ones who don’t believe them.

The statement KP said “I understand people want the story, pictures, proof that this was not some sort of hoax, plan to gain money, or some fabricated race war” speaks volumes. “I do not see the purpose in addressing each preposterous lie”.

Which lies do you not want to address, the accusations or the incident?

The leakage in everyone’s wording is incredible. (CG said that Sherri had ‘the key’ to staying alive.) She was locked up.

I bet at least one guy lets their wife carry his wallet in her purse.

As much as playing ‘What If’ is a never-ending mind fuck of a game, was it played AT ALL?

“What if I went home for lunch that day? What if I would have seen the text!? What if I been there?!”  

My phone pops up a preview when I get a message. Maybe his phone popped up a notification for his text, so he could actually see that he got a text from her and see the first few words, which is enough, but didn’t OPEN it up and read it until a few hours later. He COULDN’T have read that text, because he was at work, and he's a good boy, and it’s against company policy to have your personal phone on you.

That’s exactly why some people keep it on silent and only check it in the bathroom or on break.

          He can’t even fake feeling guilty and regretful about the obvious things and goes straight to denial. This is stuff you would NORMALLY feel some sort of great let down, regret, missed chance, or guilty feeling such as you didn’t see the text right away, and didn’t respond right away, and maybe you should have gone home for lunch, or could have been there, but no, he has his Guilty turned OFF, so it’s not registering even when it should.

I can hear the robotic voice in head now “I have no guilt. De.ny every thing Re.boot.”

Systems:RunAbductionStoryline2006.

                “It was a dark and stormy night..”    Oops, shit, wrong one.

Systems:RunAbductionStoryline2016

               “It was a cool and crisp autumn afternoon….”



Error
        

It would be a lot of work for her in 2006, if that were true, to date and marry David, break up, (?) then get kidnapped and returned, then bump back into Keith and date him and move in together…..all in the same calendar year.

Strangeness

The family started posting pictures of people missing in the area, either because they had started following missing people pages, or because of an effort to convince the public.

“Look. See? A lot of people go missing from this area!”
There’s no reason to convince anyone. The focus should be on YOUR missing family member.

Sharing other missing posts is one thing, as it's the same effort you want others to do to find your loved one. But some can tend to over do it, while other family on SM did the exact opposite.

KP has been seen driving a new truck. Was that a GFM ‘Bring Sherri Home’ expense? Did he actually bring her home in that truck? That’s a good way to stick to the truth. In fact, that’s the whole basis of the Go Fund Me, to bring her home safely.

I bet that truck has good safety reviews.

The private Lisa Jeter Twitter account is being followed by the Mayor of Redding. Would the Mayor follow an obvious fake Twitter account that would say XOXO <3 to a fake KP Twitter account, and say nothing to the fake SP Twitter account that are now both deleted?!

You would think that LJ knows who she was communicating with, as well as the mayor. With that, I would assume that all the accounts were/are genuine.

      

  KP and SP Deleted.                   LJ now private.                      

For someone to get freed from abductors after 22 days and not require such extreme urgent medical attention means Sherri is extremely lucky to be alive.
              In what manner was she first taken that she has no description of the SUV, from that day, from being driven around for 3 weeks during, or that night?

During the 20/20 interview, KP said “whenever she was in the car, she was tied to something”. If she was only taken, and dropped off in that vehicle, then what vehicle was she driven around in during all the ‘’whenever’’ times? Wasn’t she tied up just those 2 times that she was taken, and returned?

Was she ever in another car and NOT tied up?

Now that we know there was a trip to the Detroit suburbs (Canton, New Hudson, Northville, Plymouth) we can put that in the timeline:

Nov 2 – Reported Missing.

Nov 5 – Anonymous Donor is in town on business and makes website and letter. Says is leaving state the next day.

Nov 6 – (The next day) CG leaves the state on a business trip.

Nov 7 – KP is given a Lie Detector Test, voluntarily.

Nov 9 – LE goes to Detroit. Rumors of an affair with a doctor are floating around the interwebs.

Nov 10 – People magazine runs an article on SP’s disappearance.

Nov 11 – LE returns to California. The AD is...somewhere.
KP is no longer considered a suspect.

Nov 12 - CG returns to California 

Since the AD's plan to LE didn't work the week before, they all need to up their game, and throw in an Unknown Person who called Lisa Jeter, in order to "suggest CG", since no one took the AD's bait. 

Nov  17 – As of this date LE has filed 20 + search warrants.

Nov 24 – SP is released from her abductors.

When Bosenko said that she had been branded with a message, the first thing I thought of is all the cows in California. Not only is there a plethora of dairy cows, (Smells like MONEY) but good ole Grade A, grass fed, Black Angus. MMM. There are even a few big restaurants up and down the I-5 with cows grazing out back. It’s called Cattlemen’s. Cattle get branded with ownership. A branding would imply just that, ownership. Somebody is telling Sherri ‘I own you.’

Did someone say that to her recently?

Keith wondered, “Are they feeding her? Is she hot? Is she cold?" Those are children questions. You would agonize over whether your child is cold, hungry, alone, scared or hurt.

You would have darker questions about your wife, a woman. Why would she be hot? It's winter.

He gives 3 reasons why he didn’t answer his cell phone, just in case the first 2 were suspicious.
       1.      He didn’t get to it in time.
       2.      He didn’t know the number.
       3.      He was shaving.

            Maybe Suzanne can help with things. I was wondering why there were a few SM accounts with MFPapini. I thought, ‘Isn’t her name S.E.Papini?’…. and realized that it probably refers to Marriage & Family therapist. If this website is correct and that is indeed her, then she is/was a therapist according to the California Association of Marriage & Family Therapists (CAMFT) and could really assist in getting SP the kind of help she needs. 

http://www.chicocamft.com/member-directory.html

Maybe that’s how all this started. A ‘Marriage Intervention’. Tough Love.

They will drag this out until the burning embers of questions have turned to ash.


                                    

RISE ABOVE IT

Sherri Papini. The Super Mom Saga - Part 3

THE DISAPPEARANCE OF SHERRI PAPINI

PART 3

“THERE ARE NO GOOD GIRLS GONE WRONG – JUST BAD GIRLS FOUND OUT”

MAE WEST

I can’t in good earnest say that this is indeed Part 3, as in, an extension of the story that everyone knows so far. It’s merely just more information, maybe some you don’t know. I honestly don’t feel like putting any more thought into a catchier title than SAGA part next. If anyone wanted their life to be turned into a Soap Opera, without ever being in the damn thing or having lines, it’s these people, and Our Girl.

Our WHITEST GIRL CONTEST girl. There are so many involved, that filtering the truth through the Bull Shit Sieve is almost as nauseating as it must have been to see her for the first time, and by the time it comes out, it’s dripping with eye-rolling rumors. What IS the truth?!

Every story, rumor, thrill ride, tasty treat and ‘Guesssss what iiiiii knowwwwww’? troll bounces around the internet, muddling every sensational story that pulsates on the internet waves, while specialists discuss theories on the shiny tube and then slowly cut to fade away while the story dies..Week after week. What story? Where is the story?! Where is the press? IS there a story?!!

Maybe there just is no story. Maybe Sherri just wanted a different lie, and got one. Maybe she wanted attention. You got it there sister. Did she really ‘Gone Girl’? Was Keith cheating on her? Was Sherri cheating on Keith? Let’s talk real. People have cheated, it’s happened. Not everyone cheats with the same/opposite sex that you would expect. Maybe there’s a whole other side that’s just too private to throw out there. Either way, these are some good hiding, secret keepers. Maybe Sherri’s a secret bad girl. After all, she successfully got herself unabducted, and since no one in the Papini Family is telling Cameron Gamble to STFU, because NO, you had NOTHING to do with it, then

A) He DID have something to do with her release or

B) He didn’t and go ahead bury yourself you weirdo.

If you look at A, you’ll notice that yes, he DID have something to do with it, and continues to have stuff to do with it, and other stuff, and other stuff, and other stuff and wow, I hope he actually does SOMETHING one of these days.

               A hostage negotiator / Kidnapper Whisperer would not advertise their business, but if that WAS there business, wouldn’t you have had a website with your name on it A LONG DAMN time ago?

So many questions.

         
          Some things to consider, if you happen to wake up in a strange surrounding; it’s VERY possible to be drugged and raped, and NOT know it.

RAPE is not ALWAYS violent, gory or brutally rough.

Rape IS about CONTROL.

It IS possible to be drugged, and NOT know you were raped.  

SO…how does Sherri know she was not drugged?!?!

It is possible to be unconscious, be raped, and be impregnated, and could have been given an STD!!! Why would she be so sure that she was never touched?!  

I have faith that Sherri will be able to return to putting her life back together for her kids sake. Putting her in jail if a hoax isn't going to fix anything.

  

I have officially gone down the rabbit hole so far that I found myself at the Mad Hatter’s Tea party, only after a while, I WAS the Mad Hatter.

When his mom went to get the kids, did she have 2 of her own car seats or booster seats, or were they left at the day care? Why were they left there if so?

            What is the difference between bridge of nose broken, and nose broken? I see none. The bridge of your nose is exactly the part of your nose that you break. Sometimes it’s broken sideways, and rarely it’s broken straight down or up, which can lead to death. Everything below that is cartilage. I think it’s more likely that (the skin on) the bridge of her nose was broken. It’s possible that it was from a head butt, but not actually forceful enough to break the nose. If her nose was truly broken, someone would have had to set it or she would look funny. Broken noses don’t heal straight just because you want them to. It’s takes a lot of work to set a nose.

Why are no angry family members actively pursuing kidnapers? Does the family call LE a lot and press for answers? WHY IS THERE NO ‘JUSTICE FOR SHERRI PAPINI’ WEBSITE AND FACEBOOK PAGE?

          There are a lot of similarities in stories with her, and in the local news. Add the two Hispanic women with very similar details arrested nearby prior to her disappearance, plus the bandanas Keith and her son wore on Halloween. And that episode of Forensic Files the week before, the half a dozen “We don’t use Social Media accounts” Sherri had, a Sugar Daddy that had the right kind of sugar maybe, Keith’s old Criminal Justice books, the boredom and humdrum of a 30’s SAHM and I can almost smell the copy of Gone Girl burning in the fire place, with a note sitting next to the warm, American Flag encrusted, hot Apple Pie waiting for Keith when he got home.

         But alas! The moment he walked in the door and she wasn’t there, he knew it wasn’t right. What time did she usually drop the kids off at day care those days? It was definitely before 11 right? And I keep reading that she picked them up at 3:30 (She either had a strict routine, or she was always late, depending on who’s talking).

         She also took her kids to a daycare that wasn’t blowing up 10 phone numbers of known immediate relatives I’m SURE a mother would give several in case of emergency, in case she happened to be 1-3 FREAKING HOURS LATE AND NO CALL? As a twice 'Home Day Care' owner ran, once with the State and once unlicensed, and now a registered private school homeschooling my kids, I implore you, find a new day care.

I'm going to go out on a limb here and suggest that Two Hispanic Women have changed their identity by now. A little wax and some hair dye, and boom, you’ve just added 1 million Hispanic women to the descriptions. Wouldn’t it be likely that the alleged abductors have changed their identities by now? I seriously doubt they are walking around with bandanas on their face.  Somebody must have just seen “Born in East L.A.” Heyyyyy, whassssssshappppennnningggg.

 

I mentioned on Reddit just once that I followed her on Pinterest, and got notifications daily that she was liking or pinning things, so I said “Ya, she’s online every day, so I’m pretty sure she’s in here”, on this thread reading things. 

I’ve known this for 2 months because of the notifications, but apparently me saying on Reddit the other day got her attention and within hours it was changed to something like “Red Green Blue 67483756849”.

Sherri’s most Googled word is ‘S’. Google fills in the rest for her.

  

CONTINUED MESSAGES WITH ALLEGED INSIDER:

I asked about further mention of abuse, or from who, if any was talked about. What was she like as person, and what types of things did she do. Give me some kind of picture of this woman.

 A.I. >  The only thing we ever discussed was her ex supposedly kidnapping and torturing her. We didn’t talk about family much. (I’m guessing this person wasn’t big on knowing lots of details)

 A.I. > I know something that no one has mentioned is her selling her eggs for $. Out here, I know she did that twice. Not sure if she did it anywhere else.  She doesn’t have a college degree. She never really had a true career or long term work, but definitely likes nice things.

 ERRRR… hold up, push the brakes. Selling her eggs? I’m pretty sure I heard that somewhere and thought it was just another rumor. Ok, I'll bite.

Me…. I hear the egg selling thing was really a rumor based on the ridiculous amount of money being thrown around. Did she say how much?

What kind of job and place did she have? Did you live together? Were you roommates? Did you hang out and party much?

 A.I. >  She got 8K the first time around for selling, and a little more the second time.

I researched this, and in LA, it’s not unusual to get 10K. In fact, I saw websites complaining about certain places getting more, and that 10K should be a cap. Hmmm, not totally unbelievable, but this was still over 10 years ago right?

A.I. > We never lived together, but she was always spending the night at my place. She was living with a roommate or ex when we met.
(So, not sure if AI was friend, main friend, or side friend, but feels sorry for friend. Friend seems like a nice AI)

 A.I. > She worked as a car salesman for a short period of time but wasn’t too into the job and quit.

(Has anyone heard that before?)

 A.I. > DESCRIBES TO ME A PICTURE THAT WAS ON PHOTOBUCKET, (NOW DELETED @$*&%$@!) OF HER SITTING ON A HOSPITAL BED NEXT TO A WOMAN WITH RED HAIR, GAVE ME THAT LADIES NAME, AND SAID THAT IS THE PIC OF SELLING EGG, NOT THE BOOB JOB HOSPITAL PICTURE THAT EVERYONE THINKS, ON THE DAY THEY WERE FREEZING THE EGGS.

HOLE E. COW BATMAN

 

 

Does anyone have that picture? A picture of her sitting on a hospital bed next to a lady with red/ish hair from her photobucket? UPDATE: SOMEONE SENT IT TO ME.

 

This first picture is the one described by Alleged Insider. A woman (Name known but withheld) with reddish hair is having her picture taken with Sherri. This is supposedly when she sold an egg from her ovary. The second picture is from a different unknown hospital stay.

 Me > …….(UMMMMMMM WOW.)

I’ll have to research that….

Was that red headed girl friend or family?

 A.I. > She was just ‘hanging out’ with a friend of mine. Sherri was instant best friends with her, and then after being driven to and from the surgery, became enemies. (Thanks for driving me!)

 A.I.> She was never a bad person though, and what I know about her doesn’t make sense with the rest of the story that everyone is saying about her.

Me> Well her photobucket is deleted. I can’t find any picture of her with a red head on a hospital bed. Do you have any pictures of her at all? (Anything you can send me at all?) I mean, I heard about her with pictures of men on her photobucket, but she was married, and still had pictures of her with exes?

A.I.>  LOL They weren’t her exes. ‘IIII” used to be on her photobucket (WHERE ARE THESE PICTURES?) so I made sure to go through them to make sure there was none of me in there. It was entertaining, to know who everyone was in there, and to see what other people were saying, and not know what they were talking about ….Like the exes, or the “boob job” talk, it’s funny because she is naturally busty and petite.  

...OK people!!I don’t know about you, but I don’t let all my friends touch my boobs. I’m going to assume this person knows what Sherri’s boobs look and feel like, and proved that there was no boob job by agreeing to a boob exam, merely speculating.

 A.I.>  She didn’t look like she had any injuries to her face in those pictures they showed of her at the house. It’s funny, I remember picking her up super early from home without makeup and she would be covered just like that, from head to toe, and looked the same.

 A.I. confirmed to me is not ‘Mexican’ (not that half of white people know the difference between Mexican and Hispanic or Latino).

I’m your basic “White girl after 300 years of European Orgies.” With that little side Safari trip.

AS FAR AS I KNOW, IM TALKING TO SHERRI’S REFLECTION IN A HER MIRROR.

I can’t deny that most of it makes sense, but I’m waiting on evidence. But if it's true, hey. If not, I'm just another lost blogger throwing out theories.

 I have someone else that I’m talking to, but they seem more curious in who I am. Yo, I found YOU, and you verified sigggghhh. Just answer the questions! lol So far, they knew her, they don't know her now, and not sure want to say much more.

Now more rumors flying around, but this time of marijuana, Kratom, barbiturates, and opiates, and diazepam, benzoates, and I don’t know how many others but Isaidemall.

There’s places to hide, but unless the children are going to be sent to a commune in another country, then no. Kids are going to need to go to school eventually, parks, McDonald’s playground, the carnival, haircuts, pony rides….they’re kids. They have no desire to sit in a desolated cabin and never see other kids. You can only stay cooped up for long. The kids will drive them back into the public, and the kids will be the catalyst that gets them an ounce of privacy.

When ZERO clues plus

            ZERO sense adds up to
            TENS OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS, well then

 WTF DO YOU THINK HAPPENED?

TO SHERRI:

I hope that you are receiving the mental health help you need, and the first step is admitting you need help.